When you hit the Play button, the Matrix begins to broadcast a bonjour service and will begin a server/client connection with any listening copies of The Matrix. The iPad on which Play is hit is the server and has a light blue screen. All other iPads are the clients and have a black screen.
Delaying the connection until Play is tapped allows any of the iPads in the matrix to become the server.
This connection remains open until ‘Exit Play Mode’ is hit on either the client or the server.